Is it a Bad Romance? Job Hunting in the Flesh

Thursday, February 25, 2010 Posted by Revanche 7 comments
WiseBread's Job-Search Romance post made me laugh.

No small feat considering how fraught with stress the job-hunt life tends to be, but the timing was just right as I'd just likened the post-interview process to dating in a private conversation:

If I call them before it's "late," when they were clear about their response timeline, I destabilize the dynamics.  Post (what seemed like) a strong interview, they've got to make up their minds to want me.  And if they want me, they'll come calling, not just leave me hanging.  If I have to beg them to want me, the chemistry wasn't there and, by Jove, neither will it be in my favor for negotiations! 

As Julie notes, "Often, there is little you can do to make the employer love you if you’re not the one."

At the end of the day, do you want to have spent your time slaving for the affections of the one who just kind-of, sort-of liked you?  Or do you want to have a dynamic, thriving relationship based on mutual goals and admiration?

Idealistic?  Absolutely.

WellHeeled rightly points out, "a romance isn't responsible for PAYING THE BILLS."  Of all people, I know that. But there's at least a little room for idealism in the world. And there's still some room in my budget to pursue a combination of that hope and my normal brand of pragmatism.

After all, if I don't value myself as the proven high-performer that I have been, why should they?

Of course I want a job, but I don't want just any job, I need a job that wants and values me/my work.  

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Edited to add a link to a Forbes article: Why Job-Seeking is just like Dating
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So much for my phone plans

Wednesday, February 24, 2010 Posted by Revanche 9 comments
Just as I started on a quest to explore options for my cell phone, I discovered entirely by happenstance that my parents were harboring yet another (financial) secret: Mom's phone has been broken for weeks.

I've been paying $70+/month for their family plan. Without telling me, they'd requested new phones which reactivated their contracts 18 months ago which jettisoned my plans to switch their calling plans to something more affordable and sensible according to their usage.  Then, again without telling me, they changed their plan to give themselves more (unnecessary!) minutes because they don't pay or read their bills which meant another contract extension.

Totally frustrated by the parent-imposed roadblocks to trimming the budget, I've let it lie until now. Discovering that I'm paying a premium for basically one phone ticked me off, and I've researched several possible options to pick a plan that makes sense with T-Mobile's Online Help Chat.
Important Definitions
Prepaid Pay By The Day customers enjoy Unlimited Nights and Unlimited Mobile-to-Mobile calling on the T-Mobile network. Pay By The Day customers incur two types of charges: A $1 per day ($1/day) usage charge and a $0.10 per minute charge (if applicable).
Prepaid Pay As You Go means that you refill the account and pay per minute for your incoming and outgoing calls.

Even More plans keep you on a contract basis but changing to one does not change your contract date, does not incur migration fees, and offers discounted phones that lock you back into a 2-year contract.

Even More Plus plans are non-contract plans, incurs a one time $35 migration fee, retain the contract date, and does not offer discounted plans.
Option A 
Due to her much reduced usage, I can switch Mom to a prepaid plan and put Dad on an Even More individual plan for $50/month for 1000 mins, unlimited nights and weekends.  

Cost: $50 early termination fee + new phone + [$30/month and usage charges OR just PAYG usage charges]. I would have to train them not to use her phone for anything but emergencies.  Given her cognition issues, this may be a challenge.  
Gain: Saving $20/mo on Dad's plan, and if I go with PAYG for Mom, I wouldn't break even for more than 6 months. 

Option B
Wait three months until the contract is up, and then execute the plan above, saving $50. 

Cost: new phone + prepaid usage
Gain: Saving $20/mo on Dad's plan, and PAYG for Mom, I would break even in about 6 months. Depends on the cost of the phone.

Option C
Move them both to an Even More Plus plan, then switch Mom to a Prepaid Plan. 

Cost: $70 in migration fees, still have a contract date through 5/18, and that's before replacing the phone.
Gain: Forget it.

Option D
Move them both to an Even More plan with the fewest minutes possible ($60/month for 750, well over their current usage), wait three months while finding a replacement phone for the contract to run out.  

Cost: None
Gain: Save $10/mo.

It's Option D for now. I'll save $30 between now and the contract expiration in three months, and decide what to do beyond that then. 

I need a new phone

Tuesday, February 23, 2010 Posted by Revanche 10 comments
Speaking of yelling "Lifestyle inflation!" at people, I've directed that at myself lately, to little avail.  I should but cannot imagine going back to a regular phone.

iPhone's latest antics are: not allowing me to pick up calls, freezing the screen on the call failure screen, refusing to clear it out even after I've stopped the call, and shutting down intermittently. Oh, yes, and refusing to accept calls at all, forcing people into voicemail hell, and then maybe informing me of new voicemails an hour or more later.

It's ridiculous.  One major drawback with having an iPhone is that AT&T and Apple get to play the blame game and hang the responsibility for dropped calls on the other guy.  In the meantime, stuck in the middle, I feel like a orphan!

On the other hand, some of the functions - which are not limited to the iPhone - such as navigation, internet access, email access (I'm a junkie) are really very helpful in my recently nomadic lifestyle.  The navigation is an amazing key to travel independence, and I'm loathe to give it up for a regular phone.

My contract with AT&T is up this month, what shall I do?

Working on the following assumptions:
1.  I want another smartphone
2.  I don't want to pay more than I'm paying now ($65/month)
3.  I'd prefer not to pay for the phone itself. If I must .... I think the ceiling is at $100.  i
4.  Trying to avoid as many one-time or recurring luxury fees as possible (activation, for one)
5.  My ideal plan includes:
  • ~1000 minutes/mo (friends are mainly on two different networks, family on yet a third.  They won't all consolidate to make my life easier!) 
  • unlimited nights and weekends
  • ~300 texts/month
  • unlimited email, web browsing and a decent navigation/mapping service  
  • Even while I have concerns about privacy and security issues, it'd be nice to have the variety of options that the iPhone currently offers for things like banking, stock tickers, and tracking investment apps.  It's not a requirement, though.
This isn't going to be easy.  It may not even be possible. But it's research time! 


Note: In light of my slenderized budget, even $65/month seems like a luxury but do bear in mind this is my connection to the world whether I'm at home or on the road (interviewing, meeting new people with whom I'll develop professional relationships, being contacted for contract work, etc.)

Donating to teachers: used books

Monday, February 22, 2010 Posted by Revanche 8 comments
As you know, I like to donate, whenever and however I can, to good causes.  Sometimes the cause is tragedy.  Sometimes the cause is an ongoing struggle, against cancer, against discrimination, against the "lesser" wrongs, for a better world

Education is a worthy cause but I'm clearly not at Fund A Scholarship level.  Teachers, however, I can help in little ways. With the myriad demands on their time, energy, and creativity, many teachers also face out-of-pocket expenses for classroom and administrative supplies: pens, notebook paper, copy paper, books.  Fellow blogger-educators E.C., Frugal Scholar, TeawithBuzz, TeacHer Finance and others can certainly attest to the extra expenses expected of teachers.  Knowing that, I've always sent any of my personal overages of office supplies to local teachers but wished there was a more substantial way to help.

Now there is!

My teacher friend just told me about a really cool program at his local used bookstore, the Book Rack. When they buy books, one of the ways they offer payment is in store credit instead of cash. This bookstore, however, takes that concept one step further.  They accept/buy books from patrons as usual. For those who wish to donate, their store credit is added to the School Fund.  When teachers come in to buy books for their classrooms, they receive a discount in proportion to the current state of the School Fund.  He's received 25% off, 50% off, sometimes just a stack of bookmarks for the classroom.

He's building his own classroom library which is, to my mind, a far better literacy advocacy device than any standardized test, and I'll be taking my next stack of books to donate over to that Book Rack.

Good teachers are a rarity in our (in my opinion) overly standardized school system that elevates test scores above motivation, innovation, and inspiration.  I've had few great teachers, but their life lessons, not just their lesson plans, have remained with me long past the time we spent in the classroom together. Good teachers with good books? Nirvana

I would love to round up books in the SoCal area for a bigger donation, but I'm not sure how realistic that is. 
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Uprinting Giveaway Results!

Sunday, February 21, 2010 Posted by Revanche 0 comments
I'm a bit of a klutz. I accidentally closed the Random number generator screen, when I was trying to take a screen capture of it, but the winner of the Uprinting Giveaway is ..... 

#1 Investing Newbie

Congratulations! I'm passing along your info to the Uprinting folks.
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Foodie Friday

Friday, February 19, 2010 Posted by Revanche 6 comments
My sous chef wouldn't allow me to display all of yesterday's haul in its true glory (and stole one of the grapefruits). 

Though I love farmer's markets, I usually hate mornings.  The latter lends itself to instant gratification -it's SO much easier to snuggle back under the covers after my frosty nose tests the air, generally, so I'm grateful to local produce markets that offer fresh selections at great prices when I emerge from my den, starving. 

What came home with me?
2 huge bundles of spinach
2 slender bunches of asparagus
1 bundle of green onions
1 gorgeous head of broccoli
1 less gorgeous cauliflower
1 large bunch of green grapes (in the bowl) 
3 grapefruits
4 Roma tomatoes
2 minneolas
6 bell peppers (trying to stand up in the back)

How much did it cost?
$18.24

These will be featured in the following recipes:
Balsamic Poached Chicken
Roasted Bell Peppers
Baked Cauliflower and Pasta with Bechamel Sauce (courtesy of Oil and Garlic)
Enchilada Quesadillas

I'll also use the spinach in salads, and in some Indian recipes I'm hoping to make with a native cook-friend next week.  The broccoli is wonderful steamed and maybe dotted with a little cheese -- that was the first solid food I ate after my dental debacle two weeks ago!

P.S. the Chicken and Roasted Peppers turned out rather well ....

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This blog was included in AccountingDegree.com's 50 best Money Blogs for Women.
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Clearing out the closet: say yes to my dress(es)!

Thursday, February 18, 2010 Posted by Revanche 7 comments
Reading Benjamin's tale of sending his wife's clothes to consignment from the Carnival of Money Stories triggered a brainstorm. 

My regular decluttered clothing gets donated because it's serviceable everyday stuff, but I've usually got nothing of Name Brand status that would hold up in a consignment shop except ... all those bridesmaid dresses!  At least six gowns of varying lengths and styles are in great condition and deserve to be worn again. (Well, one or two are of questionable style, but I know there's someone out there to love it anyway.)

I may keep one or two just in case I have to attend anything formal again

I searched for a good consignment shop either locally or somewhere not too far a lope in California, any recommendations would be quite welcome, but all the semi-local shops have closed up and gone online. I'd be 100% for the virtual consignment experience if I weren't awkwardly sized.

Y'see, my bridesmaid dresses were all ordered in Junior Bridesmaid sizes, and frequently tailored to fit.  That means it'd take a fairly small person to wear my clothes without passing out. I'd rather sell them in a place where the customer has a chance to try on the dress. Still, returns (if allowed) aren't really my problem, right? So that's one option.

Another possibility would be to look into Asian-centric shops to see if they would carry the dresses.  My concerns with that method are twofold: most shops want to carry their own inventory, not used and tailored pieces; and (don't hate me they're my people and I know how they are!) I don't like the way Asians do business in that town.  Unless they were vouched for by one of the very few people I trust, I wouldn't trust them. Heck, I don't trust a lot of my blood relatives, their morals are too "what's-in-it-for-me?"
 
From bitter experience as a consumer - much less in a business transaction where they give me the money - many of the folks who live and work immersed in this particular predominantly Asian community surrounded by their native kinfolk are stubborn and the idea of "customer service" is completely foreign to them.  It's not unusual for them to decide to completely change your order, be it housewares, gifts, or flowers for your wedding because "I thought this was better."  No, no, you found something cheaper!

*This actually happened several times to my bride-friend.  She was far too nice, I would have lost my temper the second time that crazy shop owner thought to pass off an inferior product as a better choice for the same price. 

But I digress.

The last option I'm considering is taking the pile to one of the resale shops on Melrose. Something like Plato's Closet or Buffalo Exchange, but more upscale since those two chains specialize in casual wear.  Not too upscale like the designer/new-only shops, but an eclectic shop that accepts formalwear.  The very helpful young lady at Buffalo Exchange suggested a shop near her own: Wasteland

Their recording describes year-round purchasing, seasonally, and an upfront pricing of your clothing with an immediate cash payment at  35% of their retail price.  This sounds like the standard pricing policy across all the consignment shops I canvassed.  If I sell with them, I'd be best served waiting until near prom season since I'm pretty sure I've missed Homecoming. 

I briefly considered selling them on the blog, but .... dresses are so much more difficult than bags, shoes, or jewelry, aren't they?

None of these options will be more than a pittance of the original money spent, but it'll open up at least a foot of closet space and these pieces should go to good homes which is another version of repurposing.

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My guest post at The Digerati Life: Wedding Invitation Etiquette: Should Kids Be Invited to Weddings? was included in WiseBread's Personal Finance Roundup: What If I Can’t Afford to Make My Mortgage Payment?
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Pitfall of going paperless

Tuesday, February 16, 2010 Posted by Revanche 8 comments
I absolutely love the reduction of paperwork and the mostly empty file drawers in my desk.  One of my main goals of decluttering was to eliminate loads of bulk and excess that creep into all the corners of your life until one day, you fear that it might claim you in your sleep. 

Or is that a creeping feeling that only I get?

It does take some upkeep, but with a bit of dedication to scanning in paperwork as you receive it, even if you don't immediately name and deal with the file in question until later, you can eliminate those Leaning Towers of Recyclables from your life.

The one major problem I've run into is that when some record goes missing, my heart goes KER-PLOP. No matter how hard I look, if something isn't in my electronic files, I probably didn't scan it but definitely proceeded to discard the hard copy too long ago to retrieve.

I discovered this flaw in the Master Plan a few weeks ago when reviewing documents for tax returns. I always use the previous year's return as a guide but for the life of me, I cannot find my tax return paperwork for 2008!  I triple checked to make sure I wasn't just thinking of the wrong tax year, but no love.

The Master Plan needs tweaking, I see.
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My post on Repurposing was included in the Festival of Frugality hosted by Simply Forties.

'tis the Season for Sweeties

Monday, February 15, 2010 Posted by Revanche 15 comments
 Did you know it's Girl Scout Cookie season?  Carolyn and I were tweeting about it a while ago, I think.

Those with the connections have already placed their orders whilst others have had to eagerly await the intrepid entrepreneurs setting up their tables outside grocery stores.  Alas, I've lost contact with my main dealer who would deliver so I've been waiting to buy retail with the latter group.

But you know what? I've been out there. Nary a Scout to be found.  What happened??

It's not an addiction anymore, but I do like to have two boxes of Trefoils on hand a year. They're my indulgence.  Of course, they don't hold a candle to Walker's Shortbread, but neither my arteries nor my wallet can afford that particular goody in high quantities.

Happily, I've got a friend who has never met a Girl Scout Cookie table he wasn't willing to fund, so heaven help his finances but every Girl Scout with a quota should set up shop near him.  It's a guaranteed $20 sale, every time.  He doesn't even eat them, he just wants to support the Scouts and make the kids happy.

That means his ordered boxes of Trefoils will be my Trefoils.

My preciouses ......

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Check out my post at the Carnival of Personal Finance homepage on the significance of Valentine's Day.   

My post on Pets and Preparedness was included in this week's Carnival of Personal Finance #244 hosted by Len Penzo, The Fiscally Irresponsible TV Characters Edition.


I also have a guest post up at The Digerati Life: Wedding Invitation Etiquette: Should Kids Be Invited to Weddings?

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Remember to enter to win the PearBudget and Uprinting Giveaways: You can enter to win either one or both, make it clear if you're entering just for one or for both. I'm keeping track of entries separately so you have equal chances for either prize. 

Wait! There's more Giveaway Goodness at WellHeeledBlog: Win a $100 Amazon gift card, courtesy of Mr. Rebates.  There are lots of ways to pick up entries: tweeting, blogging, opening an account at Mr. Rebates, posting on Facebook, etc.
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Happy Valen-(Lu)nar New Year!

Sunday, February 14, 2010 Posted by Revanche 6 comments
 Tidbits of Tradition
My Korean brow tamer tells me of a tradition in Korea wherein Valentine's Day is the day women buy chocolates for the men, and a man may reciprocate by paying for dinner on a Valentine's Day date.  A month later, the tables turn and on March 14th, White Day, men are the gift-givers and must select a gifts to reciprocate to the woman (or not, if his heart 'clines in another direction). Yet a month later, Black Day gathers up all the singles who didn't give or receive on either Valentine's Day or White Day for a mourn-your-singledom dinner with black noodles.


Yesterday was Lunar New Year Eve, and half conscious, I heard some family drop by early in the morning to dispense with the traditional home visits. My cousin and her young children brought back a flood of memories of my childhood.  Our family had a set tradition brought from the homeland that's changed slightly over the years, but not too much.  Once upon a time, the Lunar New Year was the Winter Break in our nook of Vietnam.  Businesses went dark, families kept their quarrels safely behind their teeth, a set of new clothing was bought (or made) for every individual to wear once they'd literally swept the old year over the threshold.

The lunar celebration spanned at least a week, usually two.  Families made house calls.  Adults drank tea together, while the children were taught to wish their elders a formal Happy New Year, happiness, health and wealth.  Each successful well wisher was rewarded with a red envelope.

That practice came to the States with my family, and I absolutely hated it. Shaking with stage fright, despite only addressing close relatives I spent time with frequently, I would gladly have forfeited the red envelopes and the hoard of cash to avoid mumbling, stumbling, as I followed my glib sib's silver tongue and brash declarative act, embarrassed and discomfited by the staring eyes.

Once everyone had paid and been paid, food and the gambling!  We had kiddy games, die with animals printed on all the sides, kind of like craps. The adults played blackjack, because Grandma loved it, and a complicated card game using tiny colored strips with printed Chinese, because Grandma loved it.

Grandma unabashedly whupped our butts every year in card games, thus thoroughly unseating any notion that gambling could be profitable.  And it wasn't for the sake of teaching us a lesson, I'll tell you that much, she just liked winning. 

Over the years, the practice of parading the children in front of a grinning group of adults has eased up. The nuclear family groups have sprouted entire new branches and bringing the old group together would be nigh-on impossible.  But then again, this generation wouldn't really mind. Born and raised in a highly affirmative environment, they lack nothing, least of all confidence, and claiming the red envelope for showing off is a matter of due course.  Kids these days. ;)

Possibly my favorite (for now) part of that tradition is that, in my family, red envelopes are given until you've married. At that point, you're considered a true adult and then become an envelope giver.  My friends alternately gripe that it's a disincentive to marry and that they want to incorporate that into their families.  Evidently some families cut you off once you're earning an adult's income.

I just smile.  There are memories sacred to every family.

Now if you'll excuse me, I've got to call my cousin and wish her Happy New Year, and thank her for delivering red envelopes I didn't earn.

Edit:  And chiming in for the Japanese tradition, see FB's comment below, and hailing From Japan With Love:
"In Japan, Valentine's Day is a bit different. The tradition here is that girls/women give chocolate to guys (girls get a present from those guys in March on "white day" -they get white gifts like white chocolate, marshmallow covered chocolate etc). Also, there is "giri choco" which basically means "obligation chocolate". Women give chocolate to their bosses or some other important men in their lives-this is expected and has a long tradition in Japan.

But what is a new trend in Japan is "tomo choco" meaning "friendship chocolate" and according to a recent survey 74 percent of women plan to give a Valentine's gift to a female friend but only 32 percent intended to buy something for a boyfriend. In another survey a chocolate maker surveyed 500 women and 92% said they had received tomo choco from a friend last year. And of these women, only 11.2 percent said they plan to give chocolates to a someone they love."
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Giveaway Central: Pear Budget and Business Cards

Friday, February 12, 2010 Posted by Revanche 21 comments
I've got a queue of things to give away, but as we're well into tax season during which people swear to start better recordkeeping, and it's still the first quarter of the year, I think it's practical to start with tools for organization and business.

**You may enter both giveaways, you just need to tailor your entries for each one! I'm keeping track of entries separately so you have equal chances for either prize.** 

Free one-year subscription to the upgraded online PearBudget 
Value: $36

Co-founder Charlie Park was kind enough to drop by and let me know that all my major objections to the software had been addressed in the online version and offered me a free subscription as well as one for my readers.  I encourage you to drop by and try their 30-day free subscription to decide if you like it.  You won't need a credit card for the free trial.

How to Enter: 

(One entry)  Leave a comment including "Pearbudget," your name and a valid email address.
                     Tell me about your current tracking system and what you love and hate about it.

(One entry)   Follow me and tweet this ONCE
                     "Win a Pearbudget subscription from @RevancheGS: http://bit.ly/aV8AMp"

(Two entries)  Blog about this giveaway
                      Link back in a comment to let me know.

(Two entries)  Subscribe to my feed  (If you already subscribe, let me know in a comment)
                      And lure in a new reader who would sincerely like this blog and hang out for good times. Actually I have no idea how you'd do the latter, so instead you can regale me with a story about how you would have done, if you could have.

Rules and Restrictions
1. I will select a winner at random using a number generator.
2. My decisions are final.
3. Pearbudget is responsible for changing your account to a free account for a year after I select a winner.
4. Open to anyone with an internet connection. 
5. Giveaway closes 11:59 pm PST, March 2nd.




500 business cards from Uprinting  

Uprinting's at it again, so for those of you who still haven't snagged a set of business cards for yourself or your blog, you have a chance to win a fairly snazzy set here.

The Specs:
Sizes:  2 x 3.5”, 2 x 3”, 2 x 2” (square card) or 1.5 x 3.5” (skinny card)
Paper: 14 pt gloss cardstock, 14 pt matte cardstock or 13 pt recycled uncoated cardstock
Specifications: Full Color Both Sides; Offset Press; 3 Business Day Printing

The ordering process should be pretty simple (though playing with the template designs might take you a while). I was pleasantly surprised when I ordered business cards online the first time around, though it was with another company.  If you like, you can check out what other swag and doodads you can order and print online at their site.

How to Enter: 

(One entry)  Leave a comment including "Uprinting," your name and a valid email address. 
                     Tell me what you're going to do with the other 400 cards because, let's face it, I've never given away more than 100 of any set of business cards ever.

(One entry)  Follow me and tweet this ONCE 
                      "Win Uprinting business cards from @RevancheGS: http://bit.ly/aV8AMp"

(Two entries) Blog about this giveaway
                       Link back in a comment to let me know.

(Two entries) Subscribe to my feed (If you already subscribe, let me know in a comment)
                       Come back and tell me a funny story. (Optional)

Rules and Restrictions
1.  Open to US residents only. (Sorry guys! They're paying for shipping, I don't have a say in this.)
2.  I will select a winner at random using a number generator.
3.  My decisions are final.
4.  Uprinting is responsible for everything that comes after I pick a winner and tell them who to reward.

5.  Giveaway closes 11:59 pm PST, February 20th.
 

Disclosure: There may be something in it for me in exchange for posting this giveaway, but I don't know what it is yet, or if I'll even accept it.
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Pets and preparedness: Have an emergency plan

Thursday, February 11, 2010 Posted by Revanche 8 comments
In a previous post, Pets and money: where do you draw the line?, we talked about a situation where a family had to choose between necessities and a pet's health.  The woman literally didn't know how she was going to feed her kids, but with an unemployed husband, she still brought home a sick puppy.

I'm an animal lover, as my "retirement plan" clearly indicates, but I'm also a very practical person as my blog shows.  At no point would I ever want to be faced with an either/or situation when it comes to the health of my family, including the furry, wet-nosed and four-footed members.

Knowing what I do about the costs of health care for animals, I could not, in good conscience, take on any more pets without a solid pet fund.  Saying that aloud makes me feel like a Murphy's target was just painted on my back.

I recommend being proactive: get an emergency kit and fund put together. You never know when an incident may strike and if it's minor, a kit could save you an expensive visit to the vet's office.  

Lemons and the case for an animal emergency kit

So many people think: "it couldn't happen to me.  My pet is calm, quiet, and well-behaved, he/she/it wouldn't ever need emergency anything."  Once in a while, that's true. Some pets can go his/her/its entire life without needing more than routine maintenance.  It's a rarity, though. 

I'm a mutt-lover.  Each of my three dogs were a variation on a Mutt, and only one of them developed truly life-threatening health problems later in life.  I was lucky enough to be working at a clinic at the time and he received top-notch care at a discount, but there were times I knew that, as a regular client, I would have been forced to make a final decision based on cost. Even with a 75% discount, I spent more than $3,000 on him on an $18,000 salary.  My other two live(d) unnaturally long lives - the chihuahua lasted about 18 years, the large breed mix is still hobbling along at 15 years of age.  We probably only have a few, if that many, years left together.  

Some people believe in the power of the purebred.  They think that good bloodlines are security, a bit of insurance against the run of the mill illnesses that plague mixed breeds, mutts, and scruffy rescues.  To some degree, they're right.  They're very unlikely to get a Parvo Pup from a reputable breeder - though there aren't any such guarantees if you're dealing with a disreputable breeder or even worse, a puppy mill. 

But the thing purebreds have going for (or against) them is the predictability of their breeds.  Labs have hip dysplasia, Dachshunds and other long, low-riders have spinal problems, Great Danes have gastric torsion, white Boxers are highly prone to cancer and lots of it.  None of these mean that every purebred's fate is set in stone, it just means they're highly prone to specific illnesses.

What you don't get in that list of "what they're prone to" is the list of "what else could happen." 

GB: the cautionary tale 


My dear friends bought a very Marleyesque dog, we'll call him GB for the Good Boy he really tries to be.  The cost of just bringing GB home was several hundred dollars, a cost that my pound/rescue supporting self will withhold comment on.  They spent hundreds on puppy obedience training, a crate, beds, pens, and all the other conveniences. 

The trouble started when GB got home. He was so excited and happy that he had to explore everything and everywhere, and everywhere bought him a big swollen bite on the face. It could have been a spider or insect bite, either way, he looked like one of those hugely magnified Hallmark cards.  Off to the vet! Hundreds of dollars and a few shots later, his swelling went down and he worked up a rash instead.

For two weeks he was on antibiotics to treat the rash, infected because GB wouldn't stop scratching at it, and then his immune system went haywire.  He'd never had reactions to his vaccines before but after the bite, he was highly allergic to the vaccines and his vet decreed No More.

Life settled down a bit. I was asked for advice on some suspicious looking pink fleshy scabby things on his face, it seemed to be ok. For any other dog. Knowing GB, I sent them back to the vet anyway and sure enough, more meds.  Surprisingly, GB was still in the neighborhood of sub $10,000 at this juncture but he's nothing if not high-achieving.

A few months later, he couldn't keep anything down. I didn't hear about it for about a day, but as they became concerned, my phone started to ring.  "Something to do with GB? Yes, take him to the vet."

X-rays revealed that in his love of turf, he'd scarfed a tiny bit of netting with the grass and it had gotten caught somewhere on the way down to form a little net. Like a sieve, this one inch piece of netting cupped and blocked his intestinal tract, only allowing liquid to pass through. Three cups of dog foods a day came right back up.  Two surgeries, another $10,000 later, and GB was sent home with orders to gain 20 pounds during recovery.

He's had other incidents, like chronic ear infections for his love of swimming with his head underwater, but I'm just grateful he made it through his first year. 


He's a big ticket dog, for which a dog/pet health fund would be highly recommended as part of your arsenal as a pet owner.  Pet insurance is always a consideration but it can be hit or miss. I think the decision whether or not to carry pet insurance depends on your cash flow, earning and saving power, and the extent and quality of the coverage offered. 

On the more prosaic front, GB managed to injure himself again over the holidays, again sending his parents screaming for my help.  Luckily, it was one of the easiest things in his medical history to deal with: a broken dewclaw.  The dewclaw on a dog is that thumb-like nail that actually doesn't serve a purpose but to get broken, chewed on, or hung up on things.  The canine's external appendix, if you will.

For that, I just needed a pair of dog nail clippers, gauze, medical tape and some powder to stop up the bleeding.  After clipping off the shattered nail, I wrapped him up and sent him, fat-pawed and resentful, on his way.  An emergency visit for that would have cost them at least $100 for the late night visit and then a bit more for simple treatment.

I'd recommend having a Pet Kit on hand for some of the more routine things that your pet could require.  My own held the following:

1. Nail clippers. Not the ones that look/act like a guillotine, my dogs hated those. The ones that were more like scissors. They're easier to control and less uncomfortable for the pet.  These are good for basic maintenance, and for situations like GB's. 
2. Cotton balls, long Qtips, and gauze.  Pets get into stuff, getting scratches, scrapes and all over in dirt, grass and blood.  They're kind of like kids that way. It's easier to assess the situation when they're cleaned up.  Long Q-tips are great for keeping ears clean, especially if you've got a chronic ear infection on legs. (We did.)  Water dogs should also have cotton stuffed in their ears to help protect them from ear infections as well - be sure to check with your vet before you do anything like that, though!
3. Medical tape or wrap that sticks to itself. I used Vetwrap which is like a hybrid between Saran Wrap and medical tape.
4. Towels/rags: Always useful after baths, wrapping up the bedraggled, and containing messes (ahem, vomit).

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As far as a pet fund goes, I'd be most comfortable with having at least $1,000 per pet assuming I'm still maintaining an outsized amount of cash on hand.  If not, I'd like to have closer to $5,000 squirreled away per pet. They can borrow from one another but I don't like to take for granted that they'll take turns being sick or injured.

Disclaimer: I'm not a veterinarian- I cannot diagnose your pets. When in doubt, please see your vet. 

Taking a moment

Wednesday, February 10, 2010 Posted by Revanche 3 comments
Could I have the mic, please?

I must express my sincere thanks to each of you who reads this blog, shares your experiences, and supports me through some of my ugliest, most painful moments.

More than that, several of you whom I don't yet have permission to thank publicly but would really like to!, were overwhelmingly compassionate when Fabulously Broke and Rina of Gotta Little Space sent out a plea of comradery and community after my post on Sunday.  It had been a soul-rending sort of day and I deeply needed to purge the poisons of paralytic despair, never dreaming it would become a call to arms.

FB made the argument for a spot of help better than I ever could have - I couldn't have justified asking for anything. I trek from today, to tomorrow, to next week, making the best of it. Nobody was compelled, no one was importuned with expectation. But you gave anyway. And you gave with wishes that it could be more, when no matter how much (and never ever "how little") you gave, the gesture meant the world to me.

I'm not destitute, just heartwrecked. I didn't have the words, who knows if I ever would, to ask for help for myself but I am blessed with friends who know me well enough to step in anyway. 

Because my parents are destitute. They've lost the joy and freedom that parents earn after raising two children, they've stalled in gear, in survival mode.  Instead of pride in a job well done, instead of relishing time-mellowed relationships with their adult children, they're always fretting. Reliance on their daughter must be crippling her future, they think, and so they pinch every penny, unable to partake in the most basic pleasures in life. Rarely taking good enough care of themselves.  Asking, needing yet more from me, was destroying the definitions of their parenthood, shaking already fragile psyches.

It is on their behalf, I gratefully accept these helping hands that aren't about me, that are about helping people over an increasingly rough road until we can make more permanent decisions.  Those decisions cannot be made lightly, they take time and ever-limited resources.  Resources like extra gas money for twice or thrice weekly 60-mile round trips to the nearest, properly-equipped adult day care center and the invaluable benefits.  Resources like that can buy time, a chance for rest, for solace, for reflection and planning.  And time can bring a measure of peace and clarity.   

A wise friend said, "if we don't help each other, who will?"

Though I firmly believe the same, that fact has never before come home with such grace and selflessness. For our good fortune, in this wealth of friendship, please know that this will be put to good use, and will be passed forward.

Blessed pain relief

Tuesday, February 09, 2010 Posted by Revanche 6 comments
When you're in pain, the world needs to know.  Sorry loves, I'm updating you on the weird developments in my dental world.


All last week, as my Tweeple might have heard, I was in excruciating pain.  Purportedly stress-related, it was agonizing and frustrating that the pain kept coherent thought at bay and kept me at that high level of stress. Almost as upsetting was the foggy realization that I was spending money on things I a) would normally avoid, or b) had to buy for convenience's sake.  Adding up the numbers is fairly well horrifying. 
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Category A

Repeat or unnecessary medications:  My dad offered to make what would have been my third trip out to the hospital to pick up medications. The pharmacy filled one too many and sent him home with Naproxen, the OTC version of which I already had.  

Processed foods: At best I was gumming my meals and even that hurt. I couldn't take one more day of liquids-only or scrambled eggs so I bought packaged mashed potatoes (just add water!) and Top Ramen.  I could just microwave the one, and overcook the other into mush. [Yeech!] 

Category B

Ordered in food: I paid a premium for high-calorie, high-sodium soup because I desperately needed extra calories and my dad can't handle non-Asian cooking. He means well but he's only cooks Asian-style and recipes make no sense to them. *sigh*  OTOH, French onion soup.  Oh yes.... 

Category C - luxuries, unbudgeted

One of my close friends, a massage therapist, called me on Saturday at noon with instructions to nap, drink plenty of water and drive 50 miles to see her.  She took me to an acquaintance whose background includes physical therapy among other homeopathic disciplines, and we spent an hour and a half working on postural analysis and some exercises.  My good ole narcotic had worn off before we crossed his threshold, and the pain level didn't spike during our session. For five days, pain has exploded as soon as a med wore off... this was nothing short of breathtaking. 

She bundled me off and gave me a good long massage (she insists it was only an hour, but I suspect she fudged the time a bit.)  I insisted on paying her because her partner is on disability right now and money is tight, but she also insists that the next massage is free.  Who am I to argue?  
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I can think again.

I could drive, I could talk on the phone for short bursts, I can remember things.  (Not everything, but it wasn't a certified miracle.) Pain management is incredible.  

The eagle-eyed might notice that, above, my dentist, for the pleasure of making me cry when he thwacked my already smarting teeth with his instrument, gave me a 10% discount on the nightguard.  Actually, he noted the discount when he found out that I was paying cash.  But still. They both discounted the total price and didn't charge to expedite the order.  (I'd told them there was a chance I had to be out of town the following week for an interview.)  Good folks.  

We're not all the way there yet, but lots of deep breathing and judicious use of the painkillers makes an enormous difference. There really seems to be something to this alignment business.  If I can, I'd like to see him one more time to help winnow the pain down to less than a daily occurrence and work on my own from there. 

Repurposing, the missing R

Monday, February 08, 2010 Posted by Revanche 4 comments
Many of us who grew up with the mantra Reduce, Reuse, and Recycle may be most familiar with it thanks to the annual Earth Day activities in school where you spent a week collecting cans or brought in stacks of paper you thought your parents were done with for recycling.  (Ooops.)

SSB4C made a great point about the misconception that recycling is an adequate cure-all.  It's not free, and it's better not to use the item in the first place if you don't need to.  But our society runs so much on the Disposable Attitude that I'd like to advocate another form of eco-friendliness: repurposing.

When and where you can: consider a different purpose for an item you're about to discard. 

Containers are the simplest to repurpose. Empty glass jars become coin collectors, storage for leftovers, a temporary home for new plants, a desk organizer for pens and pencils, "hurricane glasses" for tea lights, etc. Creative kids can turn containers in to booby traps, treasure chests, bombs of all sorts.

Does anyone remember the milk jug scoops?  When you finished up a gallon of milk, an adult would cut out a portion of the side, and kids could use it for scooping sand (or water during a massively unfair water fight before it escalates to just using the hose).

Or the last of the shampoo in the bottle was diluted for you to make bubbles with.  Toilet paper rolls become chew toys for the dogs, cats bat around bundles of old shoelaces with a long trailing lace.

A bag full of my t-shirts, scrubs, scrap materials became a quilt.

What about choosing not to buy things if you can repurpose another item?  

I've used this former travel pack box of Q-tips as: a wallet sized photo holder (high school) credit card/gift card holder (college), and now a pillbox. 

Use glass or plastic jars to grow some herbs on the window sill, or glasses as cookie cutters instead of buying round cookie cutters?

Opt to just microwave your cup of water for tea instead of buying a new kettle like EM?

Use old or mismatched socks as cleaning and dusting rags instead of buying disposable cleaning wipes? I do this all the time to clean my blinds because they fit right over my hand like those cleaning gloves, and I don't have to grip or anything.  Just spray and wipe.

Or use the clean mate-missing sock to make a heating sock?  Fill it up with rice and heat in the microwave instead of buying a heating pad.  This works wonderfully as a drape across your shoulders too, for a relaxation technique.  Though I'm more willing to sacrifice beans (ugh) than edible rice, I don't know if it heats up just as well.

There are hundreds of ways we can choose to save time, money, resources and some space in a landfill by being a little creative.
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January: It Never Hurts to Ask

Saturday, February 06, 2010 Posted by Revanche 7 comments
From the readers

444 Express meets the insufficient funds monster! And has managed to prevent a promotional balance from garnering all the interest from the promo period on a card carrying a balance.

Abigail of I Pick Up Pennies: 1. My MIL is (finally!) quitting smoking. She has been using Kroger brand patches. She went to get another box of the step she was on. Couldn't find it. Went to 3 more Fred Meyer's and... nothing.

So she went up to the pharmacy and asked if they had any in the back. He said they were out. She mentioned they were out at 3 other stores. So he made a call. Turns out, they're not going to make that step anymore.

She asked if he would give her the Nicoderm at the Kroger price. He said he didn't think he could do that. She pointed out that it seemed unfair to pull the rug out from under people who had started the program with the generic. He thought about it, made a call, and gave her the generic price. Fifteen dollars saved -- which is a big deal when you're on disability!

2. We got Tim 3 pairs of sunglasses (he loses/breaks them a lot) and he wanted to get a case or two to keep them safe. So we headed over to Walmart's optical store. As we were discussing the merits of various cases, an employee approached us. He had a case -- nicer than the ones we were looking at, and it came with a cleaning cloth -- that he had been given and wasn't using. He just handed it to us. (So, okay, this wasn't us asking, per se. But it was still pretty cool!)

3. At Macy's the woman in front of us was using a $10 off coupon. I asked where she got it, she told me it was in that day's paper. When it didn't work for her, she offered it to us. It was supposed to stop working at 1 p.m. (It was about 1:10.) But we tried it anyway, and it worked. And I wouldn't have gotten the coupon if I hadn't asked the woman about it.

Karen - My lease was up for renewal and the management sent me a letter with my rent increase.  It was a 6% increase.  I have never renewed a lease so I am uncertain if this is a standard rate increase. Due to owning a dog greater than 25lbs and needing to live within a certain radius, my options are limited. I called the property manager and asked why my rent was going up 6%. I was told my rent was under market value and that it would still be under market value with the 6% increase. She asked if I was expecting no increase.  I wasn’t however I wasn’t expecting 6%.  She said she would look at my lease renewal and see what she could do.  She called back and offered a 4% increase instead.

Personal victories

Textbook madness:  With only two classes, I shouldn't complain but I had ordered books in readiness for the new quarter only to be surprised with a different book on the syllabus posted on the first week of classes.  Mon Dieu, professor!  Why lead me astray so I've a useless book at the ready and naught to be used??

I emailed the instructor, hoping with my eyes squeezed shut that it was an old syllabus, that he'd neglected to update the text.  Alas, twasn't the cast.  Crestfallen, I glared at the book. I had to find, and price- and shipping-times compare. Like Superman (Prime), like Optimus (Prime), Amazon Prime came to my rescue, the book priced just $2 less than the rental with a two-day ship time.

Unexpectedly, an email pinged in from the instructor.  He'd spoken with the course representative and suggested that we touch base for a reimbursement.  A few emails and a phone call later, the course representative agreed to reimburse me for the cost of the replacement book.  ($63)

But the saga doesn't end there -- I was expecting to hit the road and needed the replacement book to meet me at a halfway point. Thanks to Amazon Prime, I expected to see the new book within a couple of days, but it took me almost 48 hours to realize that the shipping address had reverted to my home address. Cuh-rap.  Another round of calls to Amazon to get the shipment rerouted turned into five calls and 16 hours of frustration.  Finally, I was offered a $10 discount from Amazon for their inability to help me (and for the previous CSRs lying to me). I spent half of it to get the book shipped to the right place.


Macy's and the everlasting coupon: Like Bed, Bath and Beyond, Macy's has become one of those retailers I won't shop without a coupon.  They're overpriced and reasonable only with a combination of sale, coupon and gift card.   Unfortunately, my friends insisted on making an impromptu stop without doing coupon research beforehand.  *the horror*

I looked up coupons on my iPhone, and asked the floor manager if they were willing to scan my phone since I couldn't print a coupon.  He laughed at me saying, "You're just trying to be difficult" and waved off the phone. Instead he manually entered a discount when he rang up the purchase, giving us 15% off every item instead of just 10% off Housewares.  Savings: $10.79

Hot Pot and VH's butcher trick: A friend and I had hot pot plans for dinner, but I was too tired to shop at the Asian grocery store, Trader Joe's, the produce place, AND Safeway.  We needed thinly sliced pork, though, and usually there's no call for that at a regular grocery store.  My only option seemed to be buying pork chops at $4/lb and slicing thin strips off the chops.

Instead, I talked to the butcher at Safeway, explained what I needed and lo, he led me straight to the pork shoulder, on sale for 99 cents/pound and offered to slice it up for me.  I should have gotten a few pounds of the pork and frozen it for later at that price!  He saved me both an extra trip and 75% off the meat.

As always, every little bit counts! And as always, I welcome your sharing! 
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Dental care providers: $401, Me: $0

Thursday, February 04, 2010 Posted by Revanche 13 comments
Thank goodness for COBRA with the attached dental insurance.  The score isn't really zero, of course, I don't count my premiums when I'm looking at these out of pocket expenses. But to stay really honest, I'm paying around $20/month for coverage right now, and haven't paid a deductible.

I've been experiencing severe generalized dental pain since Monday, and it's only getting worse. I've seen the dentist ($100, covered by insurance), the oral surgeon ($301, covered by insurance), have an appointment with my physician tomorrow which WILL cost me a great deal (at least $45 to start), and will have to shell out a cool $350 on top of that for a nightguard.

[Side Note: Examining my receipt, I noticed that insurance still hasn't paid the balance for my cleaning from more than 6 weeks ago. No wonder offices hate dealing with insurance.]

All this because there's nothing to be done dentally or surgically as far as my dental care providers are concerned.  They are advising that I find a way to relax because apparently, being stressed is what's causing my body to react in ways that are ultimately self-destructive, painful and stressful.  *sigh*  Doing it to yourself, self.

MoneyFunk suggested a *fun* solution of drinking applying whisky to the affected area but sadly, that just made the teeth even more sensitive. Darn, we were really hoping that'd be the answer.  ($15 for whisky and ice cream bars.  Shoulda told the cashier it'd been a rough day, hee.)

I promise I'm not faking it so I can hide in bed for hours in sweatpants and a sweatshirt. I really want to get out and about, but this pain is excruciating. In comparison to the pain I've had over the years with my medical condition that was way high on the pain scale, this pain is much worse; it keeps me up at night and fogs my brain. I hate the feeling of fogged brain. I hate starving even more - my teeth can only tolerate liquids (of varying temperatures) and soft foods like mashed potatoes which isn't enough.  *dreams of Lemony Luna Bars and steak dinners dance in my head*  *Oh, and craving sushi. Again.*

In any case, it's rather ironic that when I need to be at my best and fulfilling earning potential, I'm only barely making it to medical appointments and emerging with no real answers.

Time to count my blessings of current health insurance coverage and ... yeah.  That's all I've got right now.  That and a bushel of OWWWW.
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Recognizing Market Capitalization In Stocks

Wednesday, February 03, 2010 Posted by Revanche 5 comments
Today we have a guest post from Silicon Valley Blogger (SVB) of The Digerati Life, my Northward neighbor and savvy investing problogger.  Please make her welcome!

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When a stock broker mentions growth investing, they are referring to companies that show a lot of future potential. To understand growth investing versus any other type of investing, it will also be helpful to understand market capitalization. The market capitalization figure will tell you the size of a company. I look at growth investing a little differently than what you’ll find from online definitions of the term. To me, you must figure the company’s market capitalization in order to know its place in its industry.

Many investors probably don’t pay much attention to market capitalization, but they all should. The market capitalization figure should be one of the first numbers you look at when analyzing a company. Companies can be divided into groupings by their market capitalization. A large cap company is greater than $10 billion, mid cap is $2 to $10 billion, small cap is $300 million to $2 billion, and there are smaller companies less than $300 million. This figure is the result of multiplying the price of a single share of stock by the shares which the company has issued outstanding. That is the equation to determine market capitalization if you don’t have a listing for it already on your information source. You should do the calculation anyway, because then you’ll know your stocks' value, for sure.

Market Capitalization = Price of Single Share of Stock x Shares Outstanding

Now stocks can also be categorized as either growth or value stocks. A high growth company can have any kind of capitalization, whether it be micro cap, small cap, mid cap, or large cap. The growth part of the analysis has to do with potential. How much market share does the company hold in its industry? To figure market share of an industry, you’ll have to get the total market capitalization of the companies in the industry you are analyzing. Then divide each one into a hundred to figure its percentage share of the market. This figure will also give you a chance to see potential growth for your company. A company often grows by taking market share away from other companies.


Total Industry Market = Market Cap A + Market Cap B + Market Cap C
Market Share in % = Market Cap (A, B, or C) /Total Industry Market


All the calculations and rules of thumb in the world won’t help you identify a growth stock if you pick the wrong industry. You have to ask yourself, what kind of money is this company making right now, what could it be making ten years from now, and then look at the industry your company pick is in… is that industry in decline or not? In general value investors look for companies in established industries with an undervalued stock price. Growth investors look into emerging and presently hot industries for a company that is about to take off or has the potential for high growth in the future. In value investing, your gains are from buying cheap and selling at reasonable prices. In growth investing, your gains are made by buying at a reasonable prices and then selling at even higher prices. Pay attention to market capitalization figures, and the position of the industry your company is in, and that will make you a better investor.
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Deals and Steals

Tuesday, February 02, 2010 Posted by Revanche 3 comments
Interrupting this bulletin with the note that Fabulously Broke's giveaway is finally giving me a crack at those ninja coat hooks I fell in love with last year.  Oh yeah, I still want them.
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1. Sephora has a free with any purchase offer of a 10-day Supply of Bare Escentuals bareMinerals foundation, good until 2/23.  Use offer code TryBE at checkout.

I suggest that you might check out a local Bare Escentuals shop, a local one had signs up giving the 10-day supply free without a purchase. I like that one better.

2.  Danielle Ms. The Frugal Lawyer made me laugh with her contemplation of giveaway items as I've been thinking about doing a giveaway. What do you think of:

A collection of PF books [Secrets of a Stingy Scoundrel - I swear I didn't hate it, Phil!; Shoo, Jimmy Choo!; The Wealthy Barber, etc.]
A tiny never-been-used handbag,
Southwest drink vouchers,
A free year's subscription to PearBudget
and the obligatory UPrinting business cards?

I'd oblige you with pictures but it's been a long day.  Oh fine, hold on, wait right there .....


There y'are. To be more fair, I'd probably break up some of the items if there's interest.  And for the PearBudget subscription, you can sign up for a 30-day free trial and then decide if you'd like the year's free subscription after.  That'd probably the best way to do it, no sense in wasting a subscription if you don't really like it.

I'm going to poke around for more goodies.
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What's in your shoe closet?

Posted by Revanche 19 comments
Did you think I'd fallen off the wagon?  The Minimalist one, I mean. I'd like to say I hadn't but I did put the quest on pause for a while, I needed to catch my breath and just enjoy ownership for while before I picked up the momentum again.  This time, due to a chance remark by a male (*cough* shoe whore! *cough) friend who claims I own more shoes than he, I've targeted ... my shoes.

I've had a lot of shoe rules over the years:
  • They can't make my feet look like boats. My feet are smallish so wrong-sized shoes just make me look like a clown clomping around looking for my personal Tokyo to stomp.
  • Room to wiggle my toes (in the closed toed category).
  • Not trendy - I wanted cute but also for them to last a long time.
  • I had to be able to run in them. All of them. Just in case I ever encounter a creepy middle of the night, walking alone, something scares me scenario and then I have to outrun a serial murderer/survive a zombie invasion/catch a mugger/make it to Safe first.
Would you be surprised if not all of them met my last requirement?

Even with those rules, I've picked up some doozies of Bad Judgment over the years so I won't show you the shoes that were just culled from the herd.  Instead, I'll show you the shoes that made the first cut. I'm setting new rules: comfort first, attractive second, and I can't own more shoes than half my age.

My biggest problem with shoes is the same problem I have with all clothing.  I have unreasonable expectations. I want a multi-functional,everyday shoe that's comfortable and casual, but won't look weird paired with jeans, black pants, shorts or maybe even skirts.  In search of that perfect shoe, I kept buying Almost shoes.  That is a LOT of money wasted on shoes that aren't Keepers.

The shoe that I want, this Magic/Bond-like item, doesn't exist and I have to accept that.

Instead, I'm now trying to shape the shoe-pack into a streamlined unit where a set of two or three pairs will see me through any sort of trip: the long weekend, a short week, a three week jaunt.

The workhorses: hiking, running, and trotting about town (3)

The casuals(6, 1 missing):
(My Rainbows are missing from this photo)

The fancies (7, 1 missing) 
(My interview shoes are missing from this photo.)

Clocking in at a grand 17 pairs, even after rejecting another 7, I still have a few more than my accuser, but this is a good start.

A few thoughts now that I'm facing the collection as a whole: the MaryJanes may have to go soon. They're fun, but not really age-appropriate.  The silver ones I'm only holding onto out of sentimentality since they saved me well over $100 in bridesmaid shoes (4 silver shoe weddings).  As long as my declaration of No More Bridesmaiding! stands, I won't be needing them either.

What's your shoe philosophy?

Audience Participation!
Krystal @ Give Me Back My Five Bucks: Krystal's Shoe Closet
The Asian Pear: What's on my feet 
Rina @ Gotta Little Space: What's in YOUR closet? 
Sunflowers @ The Debt Chronicles: My Shoe Closet
Quarterlifegirl: What's in your shoe closet?
Little Miss Moneybags: Linkfest (shoes included)
Paranoid Asteroid:  I want to be the same as everyone else on the internet!
Stacking Pennies: My shoes! 
Airam @ Out of Money Experience: A Pair of Shoes Can Change Your Life. Just Ask Cinderella
High Class, Low Income: Shoes are a Girl's Best Friend
Unknown the Artist @ ..On Fire While I'm Playin', I'm Blazin' Game..: De-Cluttered: Mean Girls Dismissed From Shoe-niversity
Serendipity: Walk a Mile In My Shoes
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January Snapshot

Monday, February 01, 2010 Posted by Revanche 6 comments

Shooo-eee, I can certainly spend when I've a mind to. Some blame to be placed on school and textbooks, and some on household expenses.  I won't go through the litany here because it just sounds like a bunch of hooey excuses. I've already got a few returns in mind (gifts never given), and a mental note says that quite a few of those expenses would have come out of the gift fund. If I still had one for the year.

This, by the by, is what comes of relying on the stock market for NW gains.

To make matters appear worse, I'm going to add another layer of transparency here.  According to my spending tracking via the new spreadsheets, I only managed to stay out of the red with regards to cash flow thanks to the last minute arrival of some irregular income checks.  It's not fair to label that as a problem area yet, I knew that I'd be paying some (major) debits of last month out of this month's cash flow.  I didn't anticipate some of the interruptions in the unemployment income.

Am continuing to bear down on the job search harder, looking out for more freelance opps, while doing justice to my schoolwork.  And if the blog becomes an avenue for income, that'd be a-ok by me!
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My post Pets and money: where do you draw the line? was included in this week's Carnival of Personal Finance.  Please be sure to check it out, there are some great articles!